Requiem in Pace, Tia. So very, very sorry.

Rest In Peace Tia... You will not be forgotten
:*(

What do these posts suggest, she deserved to die because of her past? She's dead, let her rest in peace.

God makes final judgement, regardless of your past. Rest in peace Tia.

A woman is a barfly who was last seen at a bar, and her past and her lifestyle aren't relevant? I'm sorry the woman is dead, it's a tragedy and all, but PLEASE...The vast majority of people who are murdered are killed by someone they KNOW.

Enough bad remarks. May Tia rest in peace in the hands of God. If you remarkers want to do some good, go out and find the monster.

shut up

What is wrong with you people, NO one deserves to die like that. So she was a party girl, that doesn't mean she should die such a violent death. Oh and Harx, guess you won't have to worry about her "racing boozily along" now will you. RIP Tia and they will find the thug that did this to you.

You people bringing up her past are absolutely ridiculous. No one should have to die the way she did.
RIP

I see Harx is making even more inappropriate comments - the ones made yesterday that were removed weren't enough for you Harx???? You are a total jerk. I bet you dont have the balls to say what you are saying here to the face of her friends and family.

Tia may have had run ins with the law - but no one and I mean NO ONE deserves to die the way this young lady did.

My thoughts and prayers are with her friends and family.

Hopefully the person responsible for this will be caught soon and PROPER punishment will be done.

you "people" are an embarrassment,if you dont have anything Nice to say ,about a lady that has been killed in Our area,then shut up!
Be Free Tia,,,

While it may be true that her choice of lifestyle is questionable and may have put her in a very bad situation it still doesn't give anyone the right to take a life in such a violet and horrible manner.

I'm not related nor do I know her, that being said I sincerely hope all of you who have posted negative things on here never have a family member or friend murdered only to read the stupid and mean type of comments made here by some. Please try to have some compassion for the family and friends of this poor girl she may have made some big mistakes but do you really think she deserved this?

In the end I believe it will either be someone she knew or we have a sick deranged perhaps serial killer lurking in SWFL as this was more than just a murder.

I agree with TSOL let this woman rest in peace and lets spend the enegy wasted in this blog on finding the killer. No one deserves to die as she did, I don't care what mistakes she made in the past. Some of you on this blog are heartless. think of the parents and siblings that have to deal with this terrible memory of one of their family members being killed like this. Rest in Peace Tia.....++++

To all the ones, putting down the victim, saying she was at fault, and sticking by your guns. DO ANY OF YOU CONDEMMERS OWN A GREY CADILLAC? Now, whoever of you who has NEVER sinned, come back and cast another stone. The monster is still out there hunting, where are your brains at? One of your own could be next.

Any DUIs committed by Tia are completely irrelevant to her murder.

Harx, are you implying that because she was charged with a DUI, she deserved to be brutally murdered? Maybe instead of worrying about what potential harm a dead woman could do, you should worry about what a living murderer could do to innocent people in our community.

Unless you are perfect, you should refrain from judging others, especially under these circumstances. The lack of class of some people in this area is astonishing.

you know what maybe people should keep there mouths shut. Tia was a good person sure she got into some toruble, but guess what no one is perfect we all make mistakes in life. Just because she got into trouble doesnt mean that this should have happend to her. In fact I cant tell you how sick it makes me that they even bring up the fact that she has been arrested, are you freaking joking she was just murdered in a horrid way. Who are any of you to pass judgment on someone that you didnt even know. Myabe some of you need to take a trip to church and reflect on your self before you pass judgment, on some wonderful person that was murderd... I went to school with Tia since we were young children and she was one of the sweetiest people I have ever met. If you wanted to be her friend, then she would be yours. She was always there for her friends when they needed her. The type of person that would give you the shirt off her back. Life of the party, could put a smile one anyones face. So please before you start talking crap and passing judgement on someone that was murdered listen to both sides of the story.

*** Attention HARX****
Please do us all the favor and give me your address. I will personally come see you and fix your attitude. Tia is family, did not deserve this and does not deserve your idiotic remarks. You dont know her!! If you have any pleasant thoughts please post them here, if not SHUT THE HELL UP!!!

Let him who is without sin cast the first stone.


According to the Gospel of John, the Pharisees, in an attempt to discredit Jesus, brought a woman charged with adultery before him. Then they reminded Jesus that adultery was punishable by stoning under Mosaic law and challenged him to judge the woman so that they might then accuse him of disobeying the law. Jesus thought for a moment and then replied, “He that is without sin among you, let him cast the first stone at her.” The people crowded around him were so touched by their own consciences that they departed. When Jesus found himself alone with the woman, he asked her who were her accusers. She replied, “No man, lord.” Jesus then said, “Neither do I condemn thee: go and sin no more.”

Judging from some of these ridiculous posts, some of you really need to take a look at yourselves and ask, "am I without sin?"

So what muliple DUI's give me a break, doesnt make a person a BAD person. Bad choices are made by all, hell I had a DUI but I'm a great, caring person. For example, I really would care about BEATING YOU SENSELESS. Now be the man you want to be and give capecodder and myself your contact info, otherwise stop posting on here. Also can you do us all one more favor? Please go have your balls removed as you obviously dont need them anyway and this would prevent you from contaminating the world with any more like you.

Harx, a young woman was brutally murdered, yet the only thing you seem concerned about are the 'what if's' and 'this could've happened'. You need to seek some extensive psychotherapeutic therapy! You've got some serious issues if you're ONLY obsessed with Tia's past DUI's.

Rest in Peace Tia Poklemba!

Hrax, you have no heart at all.. Did you know Tia? I dont freaking think so! I did I new the real Tia, the Tia that would do anything for anyone. I cant believe that just because she has a couple of DUI charges you think that what happend to her is ok. She was brutally murdered and all you can think about is some DUI's. Crap simply crap, she was not anykind of a time bomb. You need help, cause you are a cold hearted person. What if that was your child and people where saying these things. How would you feel then? Tia you will always be loved you were a wonderful person and are now in a better place! R.I.P

for all you making negative comments, you are truly gutless. no one deserves to be murdered. how dare you even insinuate this.

this young girl may have had a rough past but to say she would have killed someone with her behavior is non-sense. She very well could have learned from her mistakes. deport the people who bring up the negative thoughts. you people probably support obama.

Vote for Exxon John.

Harx.....you truly are an IDIOT, doesn't sound like any one wants to read your idiotic comments.
Don't go away mad......JUST GO AWAY

Karma, what goes around comes around to those that have no heart. RIP Tia

I guess some people can't keep their Fing opinions to themselves when it comes to the appropriate time and place to make a comment. THE FAMILY COMES AND VIEWS THE STORIES ON HERE TO SEE IF THERE IS ANY NEW NEWS. Nice job hurting the people that loved Tia.

POS in my humble opinion.

I am suggesting removal of Harx's comments. Not for censorship but because he is here to insight hurt and pain.

I'm sorry to all the people that came here to pay respects and then had to read some of these comments.

I think that just about everyone here is doing the same FreshFace with Harx's comments.

Maybe Harx should be looked @ as a suspect.....Seems to have a lot of dislike for this poor dead girl.

Harx she didnt rely on strangers from the Tiki Bar... So what are you trying to tell me that if she didnt had the DUI's that she wouldnt have been murdered... That is crap, and to naplescitizen she didnt hang out with what you call it unsavory characters. None of that has to do with the fact that Tia will never be here again. Cant you let us just deal with her death and not have to listen to yall talk crap about her being arrested and who she hung out with. She was a nice person good person, and her arrest have nothing to do with her death do you not understand english... Think about her family that im sure is reading everything that is on here. Have a heart.. Tia you will never be forgotten..

Harx, you are truly idiotic. Not that it is any of your business, but your counting is as off as your conscience. You can NOT be arrested for four counts of DUI at the same time, you imbecile. Those are PROPERTY DAMAGE charges. For someone so smug, you should really consider going back to grade school to relearn your addition. You are either truly moronic or a liar, and either way you should be ashamed of youself, you apathetic creep. Anyone that would insinuate that someone was more deserving than another to be BRUTALIZED and left for dead because of a couple of DUI's is either sick or insane. I can only assume dementia is creeping up on you in your old age.

And as for you Naplescitizen, you truly disgust me. Only a sick, sick pervert, such as yourself, would even notice the breasts of a woman who is pictured mourning her sister at her funeral. You should truly consider having yourself evaluated for sexual deviance.

Both of you should try to remember to remove your blue-haired heads from your wrinkled behinds before speaking, as your comments are TRULY full of shi-.

Reply to post #39 Naplescitizen

Are they taking this seriously....no? Are you another idiot? Ever heard of last wishes or respecting someone for how they were or what they would have liked. You did not know her, her family does? Maybe because of how she was this is why the casual attire, maybe Shayna new her and new thats what Tia was like....casual, easy going, comfortable? A funeral should celebrate one's life as much if not more than to mourn their death. Reading all this negative stupid comments has made me realize how much higher up on societies I am for not being so judgemental. I will not post or read anymore here, you people who have no compassion are not worth my time, God bless the rest of you.

Its disheartening to me that even the most cold, calculated killers are put to death humanly by our government. Yet, this young woman had some DUI's and you feel that being brutally murdered is okay? What a crock.

I'm getting really tired of all the cowards that hide behind the anonymity of these blogs. They are an embarrassment to our community.

Way to go NDN for getting rid of Harx. You have restored my faith in standards of human decency on this forum.

Thank goodness, Harx is gone. Hopefully Naplescitizen next. Now Tia's family does not have to read that garbage. R.I.P. Tia, you were a bright light in a dark world. You will be dearly missed.

steviep, congratulations on your DUI and still being a good guy.

I know many people whose lives are PERMANENTLY CHANGED forever after they were hit by DUI drivers like U, who are still allowed to drive here, by stupid judges who don't know any better than to allow them to go free to drink and drive again.

Meanwhile, this poor woman was brutally murdered. No one should ever be hurt the way that Tia was, and whoever did this must be caught...now would be good!

Then to post a fuzzy photo of a Cadillac...with a guessed make and model of 2003 to 2007 bothers me ...please give more info. to catch this cold-blooded killer in Lee County.

Meanwhile, to ignore her past would also be ignorant. It's all public record...two misdemeanors by age 21 for stealing, and hated HARX mentioned her DUI's, too.

Now she is gone too soon, and her killer has to be found quickly.

This woman's family deserves answers to start healing from this tragedy.

According to The Lee Clerk’s website Tia Poklemba was married in February of 2007 to a man named "ANDREJUS MARKINAS". There was no record of a divorce in Lee or Collier County. He has quite a criminal past himself. I wonder where he is through all of this. Maybe he had a vendetta against her and had one of his friends do her in. Just a thought.

redrover, no disrespect...RIP Tia...I hope your killer is found.

The more people say about your passing, good, bad, or otherwise, the more you will be remembered, and hopefully the monster who did this will FINALLY BE CAUGHT!

Naplescitizen, why not post your name? Scared of what perversions we could find in your past? You lack of empathy is disgusting, your morals laughable, and your comments are moronic. You are a dispicable excuse for a human.

Beetlejuice- Way to insult a member of Tia's family who was sticking up for her. Loser.
Sorry for your loss, Steve.

Frankz- Just another inappropriate geezer.

You guys are revolting. Classless idiots. You weren't blessed enough to know Tia, your dont know anything about her life. So stop talking about her like you know her, like you know what she has been through. And dont you dare bring up her family again, you have no idea what they are going through.

when did the news of the caddy come out???

Frankz- No that is NOT true. The TRUTH is that some sicko MURDERED her. Your logic is asinine. Thats like saying Abe LIncoln caused his own death because he chose to go to the theatre. Keep your idiocy to yourself and let people grieve.

Naplescitizen and frankz. You two are despicable and ghoulish to say the very least. May the Spirits of Darkness visit your dreams and haunt your thoughts. In these times of tragedy and mourning, your words are like barbs to those of us who knew and loved Tia. Remember well the Laws of Returning Energy. So Mote It Be!

no one answered my question the reason I ask is because a family member told me of the caddy 3-4 days ago, and it seems to just be mentioned yesterday?

The positive posters should be allowed to keep this going.

The negative posters should be deleted, and should be encouraged not to come back to this story. There has got to be something better for you all to do. Find a story about sports, or the weather, or something other than this. Better yet, go outside.

To Tia's friends and family; I didn't know Tia, but feel for you at this time, and if you are reading these posts, jump past the morons.

It's all about Tia, not them.

I'm in Louisiana and hearing about Tia just broke my heart. May God bless this family, keep them strong and I pray for justice soon!

frankz thanks for your research. People make choices every day, and it is clear where priorities are here.

JP25~U R an insult to the entire reason we are here in the first place.

To ask questions.

To form opinions.

To use our basic right to use Freedom of Speech in an honest way.

To remember the life of this woman who died at a very young age in such a horrible way.

Her family is mourning her passing...and the public and her family wants answers as to who did this.

THE FACTS R the FACTS...deal with it.

naplescitizen...did U say FIVE DUI's?

naplescitizen: May I please look up your record, credit scores, and do a complete background check on you? I mean, you did one on someone that is dead. Why not do one on you while you're alive? Tia can't do it, but I'll do it for her if you don't mind. Email me your name, address and I'll do the rest.

Thank you kindly.

naplesc, BJ and frankz, and other negative posters.

Find somewhere else to go with your comments.

You armchair detectives need to lay off.

Opinions are good when they fit, but not when we know that Tia's family is reading this stuff.

So what if she had a jaded past, or not. The idea is to find the person who did this, not to blame a victim for her own death. Heck, maybe this person will meet up with your son or daughter tonite?

They found the car, now why don't you help find the person?

What the heck is wrong with you people?

And if you want to be as bold as you've been, why don't you identify yourselves, so that we know who to keep away from, socially, business, and otherwise.

You people are giving your own community a terrible reputation, for whoever has been reading this crap.

naplesmoron(citizen): You're pathetic Ahole personality shows me that you should be brutally raped, slashed, run over, limbs cut off etc because you're ignorant.

DOES THAT MAKE SENSE? NO ONE deserves to die by the hands of another; no, not even a ICKDAY like yourself. Although, being hit by lightening may be a good substitute.

Ok...I'm outta here. This idiot is just too much.

Again, prayers to all suffering through this.

Hey naplesc, why don't you call the family and ask them. Of course, you've made so many crappy posts, I hope that I'm the only one to respond.

You are bizarre, and a general ahole.

I hope that I'm not doing any biz with you in any way now.

Because if I am, and find out, your are fired.

FreshFace,

Good comment, although we are off topic.

What's up with these a**holes?

BTW, People, the topic is Tia's death, and trying to find the person(s) who did it. Don't loose track of that concept.

Although a jaded past may, or may not have contributed to this, it doesn't excuse the event.

For you people out there, who just want to continue to dig up info on her. Don't you have kids yourselves? Maybe we are dealing with the 65+ armchairs here, not sure. In that case, time for bed.

But, how do you know, that your daughter, or son will not come in contact with this person, have an argument and wind up the same way?

The idea is to find the person ... Don't forget it. Everything else, at this point, doesn't matter.

Naples, I'm ashamed at your comments with this.

newshound to say everyone is 65+ is far reaching, as most people in that bracket are just learning to use basic email, or are on ebay, or are using the internet to check their stock dividends, or art, car, stamp collection worth.

The information on Tia is loud and clear, there was not much digging out there. It's all public record.

I hope they find this aweful creep, and they ensure they prosecute him fully so this never, ever happens to another young person in Lee or Collier County.

If it was a Pelican Bay, Ohio State University Donor, the cops would be on this case in a heart beat.

WHERE R THEY NOW?

Just wondering.

BeatleJ,

I understand what you are saying, however, look at the historic posts. They are pretty cruel.

And of course, money talks, but all of the bs posts are not needed. And really the $ thing should not come into play either.

If everyone made the same effort, success and money, I think that would make us Russia.

Give it a break.

So you don't think the Ohio State donor who was involved in a hit-and-run on U.S. 41 a few years back had a different investigation than this young lady?

I TOTALLY DISAGREE W/ U!

I will not give it a break.

Because frankly, she was too young to die this way.

The Ohio State Donor's killer was found, and it was a basic hit and run. BASIC hit-and-run, with a jerk who ran home and pretended he didn't do it.

This poor young lady endured more than we could ever imagine.

NO BREAK FROM THE BEETLE UNTIL THE POLICE OFFICER's DO THEIR JOB!

They better find this jerk!

Sorry, Beatle,

I totally misunderstood about that. My mistake.

I'm fairly new here, and didn't know about that. But, I'm going to educate myself this that issue.

But, regarding the current case, We owe it to the family to be civil, and caring towards their loss.

The losses that I've experienced with my family members, has been rough enough, without the crap going on with bloggers adding to it. I would probably have to ignore all of that.

Tia and her family are still the focus, not us.

Naplescitizen, You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink. No matter what you do to try and help someone you can't MAKE them do what they are not ready to do.

Didn't you know that ol' wise one? You seem to have the answers for everything, so why did you not think of this?

Blaming the family for a person's life???? What a sick person you really are. As if none of them cared for her. WOW, you are one miserable POS. Good luck with that.

I really hope they are getting closer I really hope they are investegating other possability's also, and are lessoning to every tip that people have called in....I hope they are taking the 800-tip line serious....RIP peace Tia....

I really just wish that people could stop saying negative things about Tia. You people that are saying things that I would not wish on my worst enemy. Let her rest in peace and let her family and those of us that were friends with Tia and know what a wonderful person she was, start to deal with her death. You may thing what you think but there is a time and a place to state your opinion and this is not the time nor the place. So please find some human decency if you have any that is and if you dont have anything nice to say then please dont say anything at all. All you negative people are doing is making things worse. Tia was who she was and no one can change that.. Are you telling me that none of you have EVER gotten behind the wheel after you have a couple of drinks. Just because you didnt get a caught you think that makes it ok, and because she did she is some horrible person? Tia no matter what these horrible people say about you we know that you were a warm hearted wonderful person and we will never forget you...R.I.P.

One drink behind the wheel is too much.

Especially if you are driving in Naples and the police sit and wait at the bar parking lot for people to leave. Plus, it is the reckless behavior behind the wheel, which creates a death trap for anyone who takes the chance to drive near or around the drunk driver. CRAZY!

DUMB IDEA ....don't drink and drive.

I'm praying they find this horrible monster!

The sooner the better!

No one said that it was a good idea to drink and drive...Its not a good idea... Im just trying to make a point that at one point in time in your life if you drink you havent gotten behind the wheel...

So Beetlejuice are you telling me you have never go to dinner and had a glass of wine or a beer and then drove home? Or maybe had a beer at home and needed to run up to the store?

I was a friend of Tia's and I just got on here to see the BEAUTIFUL photos from her Memorial! I am COMPLETELY DISTURBED to read such negative comments made BY NAPLESCITIZEN... THIS COMMENT SECTION ISN'T FOR DISRESPECTFUL AND EXTREMELY ILL-MANNERED PEOPLE to attack Tia's character!! This is where the people that cared for her and are grieving over her death to come and share our good memories and PAY RESPECT to her FAMILY!! The fact that a person like NAPLESCITIZEN gets onto a newsletter about a Memorial service and has nothing better to do but look up a deceased persons criminal record and try to slay her name into the dirt....JUST GIVES US ONE MORE PROOF OF HOW FU*KED UP THIS WORLD IS....NAPLESCITIZEN YOUR JUST AS BAD AS THE EVIL PIECE OF SH*IT THAT TOOK TIA'S LIFE!!!! NAPLESCITIZEN YOUR OBIVIOUSLY A PERSON THAT WASN'T LOVED AS A CHILD OR NOW!!! LOOK AT THOSE PHOTOS...LOOK HOW MANY PEOPLE ATTENDED HER MEMORIAL TO SHOW HOW MUCH THEY LOVED HER...IF THAT DOESN'T PROVE TO YOU WHAT KIND OF PERSON TIA POKLEMBA WAS THEN YOUR HOPELESS!!! SHE MADE MISTAKES IN HER LIFE JUST LIKE YOU...NO ONE can tell an adult how to live their life NOT EVEN HER FAMILY, she had to make those mistakes on her own and learn from them! She was 25 and had plenty of life left to correct those mistakes!! For God sacks NO MATTER WHO THIS KILLER TURNS OUT TO BE...WEATHER HE WAS SOMEONE SHE KNEW OR A COMPLETE STRANGER...HOW HER LIFE WAS TAKEN WILL NEVER BE JUSTIFIED!!! NOT BECAUSE OF HER CRIMINAL RECORD... NOT BECAUSE SHE WAS CAUGHT WITH DRUGS IN THE PAST....AND NOT BECAUSE SHE WAS AT A BAR!!!! NONE OF THAT IS AN EXCUSE TO WHY SHE HAD TO BE BRUTALLY MURDERED!!! GOD IS THE ONLY ONE WHO HAS THE RIGHT TO CAST JUDGEMENT ON HOW WE LIVE OUR LIFES HERE ON THIS EARTH!!! I CAN ASURE YOU NO MATTER WHAT MISTAKES SHE MADE HERE ON EARTH....HER SOUL WAS BEAUTIFUL AND SHE'S IN HEAVEN FOR BEING THE KIND, SWEET, SINCERE PERSON SHE WAS!!!!!!!!! SO to NAPLESCITIZEN AND ANYONE ELSE WHO WANTS TO CAST JUDGEMENT, TAKE YOUR NEGITIVE COMMENTS SOME WHERE, WHERE SOMEONE MIGHT AGREE WITH YOU CAUSE YOUR OUT NUMBERED HERE BUDDY:) TO ALL THE PEOPLE THAT CARE FOR TIA.... NEWS HAS IT THIS MORNING THEY FOUND THE KILLERS CAR NOT FAR FROM THE BAR, THEY HAVE ALOT MORE EVIDENCE AND THEY ARE VERY VERY CLOSE TO CAPTURING THE DEVIL!!! REST ASSURED HE WILL FACE OUR MAKER ONE DAY AND HE WILL ROT IN HELL FOR ALL ETERNITY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! REST IN PEACE TIA....YOU WERE AN ANGEL ON EARTH AND YOUR NOW OUR GUARDIAN ANGEL IN HEAVEN!!!! WE WILL NEVER FORGET YOU AND WE WILL LOVE YOU FOREVER<3

A NOTE TO NAPLESCITIZEN: AS IF YOU ATTACKING TIA'S CRIMINAL RECORD ISN'T BAD ENOUGH...YOU HAVE THE AUDACITY TO SAY THAT BECAUSE OF WHAT HER FAMILY WAS WEARING MEANS THEY AREN'T GRIEVING OR THAT THEY DON'T CARE...THAT IS HONESTLY THE MOST FOOLISH THING I HAVE EVER HEARD IN MY LIFE!!!! OBIVIOUSLY YOU AREN'T A CHILD OF JESUS CHRIST AND I CAN PROMISE YOU THAT WON'T MATTER...WHEN KARMA COMES BACK AROUND TO HAUNT YOU:)

One drink is too much.

If I am the DD, I will not drink at all.

If I am out and about, and I decide to have a drink. There is a business card with a cab in my pocket just in case.

But to be stupid enough to get a DUI constitutes reckless behvior, which will ultimately land someone in jail.

Is it really worth it to take this risk?

No.

Beetlejuice the question was not if one drink was to much or not. The question was have you never in your whole life had a drink and then drove somewhere? On top of that this really has nothing to do with Tia being burtally murdered.

Post # 85 by beetlejuice. "But to be stupid enough to get a DUI constitutes reckless behvior, which will ultimately land someone in jail." Is it really necessary to bring this up at a time like this? Respect is earned, not given and I have just about lost all respect I had for you and your thoughts in the past. This is a time of mourning and celebrating a person's life so show just a little humanity, ok?.

Well put News-hound, Myasmom, and Dreamer...its unbelievable that people are focusing on Tia's past and what her family was wearing instead of trying to help find her killer. I wish they would devote their investigational skills to tracking down the person responsible instead of trying to dig up dirt on someone who can no longer defend themselves. None of what they were bringing up has anything to do with her MURDER....I pray that this Caddy that LCSO just found leads to her killer. Tia's family deserves closure. Tia deserves justice.

To Beetlejuice- just because we have the first ammendment doesnt mean people should use it to justify being cruel and apathetic on a memorial board. PERIOD.People are coming here to remember Tia and look for news on her case. Not to read a bunch of insulting comments from idiots that didnt even know her. Its funny how you think I am an insult to why we are here, but there you are insulting members of Tias family.